The Best Blowjobs

So today I was thinking to myself, the best blowjobs for him are the ones that aren't solely for the purpose of the result - that is, the best ones aren't the ones where she is in a rush to make him cum. Blowjobs, like all good things in life, should be undertaken purely for the enjoyment of the act itself. Admittedly, sometimes you do just need to hurry it up, but when you want to give a really good blowjob, when you want to make it a special treat for him. Don't start out with the end already in sight. Don't make it a race to the finish. Just because you are giving him head, doesn't make it a good blowjob - a good blowjob is a thing of luxury so don't rush it! Both of you should get comfortable, get very comfortable. Turn the lights down. Then take a moment for yourself to think about something that will get you going. Perhaps take the time to paint some warming lubricant on your nipples and blow on them while he is watching, then smile at him, to get the mood and the focus just right. Then settle down to enjoy a blowjob. If he is soft, enjoy that while it lasts, enjoy his soft cock in your mouth and enjoy the feeling of it coming to life. If it is hard, take a different approach and just ignore it and enjoy watching his scrotum react to your cool breath as you gently blow across his balls, then to your warm mouth. Take his cock into your mouth, and luxuriate in it. Enjoy how it feels to both of you. Stretch out like a cat in the sun and let him feed it to you. Do it however you do it for as long as you both are enjoying it, then when you need to, finish him off. Or if all this sucking and luxuriating in cock has been working you up (not to mention his hands and lips caressing your body throughout) lie belly down and let him gently fuck you to a mutual climax. (Hey, it's a perfect world right?) So that was todays thoughts. When it comes to oral, (for guys and girls) slow is better. Am I right ;)