My Hate on Helpful Blowjob Advice

If you read a lot of girly magazine sex advice, or visit online forums for, you will inevitably get the helpful advice that you don’t need to do anything you don’t want to. Of course, I am thinking about this specifically in relation to blowjobs. A lot of women will wonder why their husband/boyfriend always asks for head, and when they ask for advice, there is always someone ready to tell them “If you don’t like it, don’t feel pressured to do it.” Now while of course I agree with that statement in general, there are exceptions. I feel that if you love your husband, if you are both healthy and well, then you should have no problem giving him head and if he has to ask for it, that is a terrible thing. (Well, asking isn’t too bad, but I get the feeling that in these cases the guy is asking out of desperation – that isn’t cool.) If you don’t like it, learn to like it. Take control so that the blowjob is something that gives you power rather than something that makes you feel derogated. Blowjobs and all parts of sex are a great tool to build a fun and healthy relationship. Use these tools. Just because you don’t love doing it, and some do-gooder says “Don’t do it if you don’t want to”, don’t use that as an excuse. Look after your man and he will love you for it. Look after your relationship and you will be happier for it. When you were in school, the subjects you didn’t like were the ones you weren’t good at. Try giving him head more often, get good at it, show him you love it and you might find you start to like it. When you get good at something like that, it’s hard not to enjoy it yourself. A note for anyone wondering about him and shouldn’t he also give her head, well fuck yes, of course! But please remember this is BlowjobHow-TheBlog, so forgive this rant, indeed this whole blog and site for being one sided and focusing on blowjobs, that’s what we do.