Thursday, June 27, 2013

Be Proud of Your Blowjob Skills

So the other day I was reading another blog talking about blowjobs. Or about how to give one, specifically. It's a great article and spells out what I talk about in the blowjob guide on my site, that you need to have fun.

However, something the author mentioned in the opening of the post stuck with me.
"Because being able to give good head is important.  It’s important for your man.  It’s important for your self-esteem..."
Wow. Giving good head is important for your self esteem. I have to say, at first I was a little bit taken aback. Hey, it's good to be able to give good head but getting self esteem from it?

But then I thought about it. This doesn't mean you are giving great head to lots of guys (which is what first came into my head). It just means you are good at it. And if you are good at it, there is no reason not to gain a little self esteem or self confidence from it. Especially if this helps you build a stronger relationship with your partner.

Another thing that first popped into my head was that this sounds like a bit of a double standard. Why should be be proud of giving great head? I want to make it clear that these aren't my opinions, more like what I can imagine people might comment. I like to think I consider myself before forming opinions - look at both views. And again, I came to the conclusion that the first comment in my head was wrong. It's not at all a double standard. Because guys should also take it as a point of pride to be good at giving head in return. If you are a guy and aren't so great at eating pussy, get busy and start practicing. Every opportunity you get. Because it is a good feeling to be able to make you partner, your lover come like that. And it does add a little to your self esteem.

Monday, April 15, 2013

Bondage Blowjobs

So I'm writing this post on bondage and blowjob because I got tied up and made to come this weekend. No I didn't get a blowjob because I'm not the one with a cock, but I really enjoyed being tied up and pleasured till I came. And so obviously it got me thinking about returning the favour.
Next weekend, or maybe in a few weeks, I will definitely be tying my beau to the bed and having my wicked way with him until I cause him to blow like a volcano.
One of the things that I really enjoyed about being restrained and pleasured is the control you don't have over your own pleasure which makes the person controlling your pleasure seems to act a bit differently than normal circumstances. This time, rather than simply bringing me to orgasm, he brought me so close to coming then stopped, so close then nothing, close then pulling away. I can't remember exactly how many times he did this but each time I was so sure he was going to let me come but then he wouldn't.
When he finally kept going, when it got to the same point my moans were indicating I was getting close and he didn't stop, it was a surprise not to be left to fall back from that peak but rather to be launched right off it. And launch I did.
It was a body shaking, stomach muscle clenching, toe curling orgasm like I hadn't had in a while. And that's the way it should be. Those orgasms are too strong for daily consumption.
But I want to get him back.
So sometime in the near future I will tie him to the bed (or maybe a chair because I'm not as rope-savvy as he is) and use everything at my disposal to tease the orgasm out of him till he is begging for it. And you can be sure that will include everything in my blowjob book of tricks.

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Blowjob Advice with a Star Wars Reference

So, I just gave some blowjob advice today (it's what I do on the website - this blog is just for ranting) and I managed to include in it, a Star Wars reference. And I am pretty stoked about that. Partly because I like Star Wars and partly because it's so deliciously nerdy, which I guess I like to think I am some times.

Anyway, just to fill out this post, here are a few Star Wars funnies:

What did Obi Wan say to Luke when he tried to eat bantha pie with a spoon?
"Use the FORK, Luke."
- http://www.top10-best.com/s/top_10_best_star_wars_jokes.html


http://empirestrikethback.wordpress.com/2011/10/03/aaaaaaaaand-another-one/