Friday, April 1, 2011

Reciprocal appreciation - cause guys can't ask

I don't think guys are really allowed to admit that they are self conscious or body conscious or concerned with their image in the same way women are.

I mean, there was a term coined by women's magazines and other press - "metro sexual" for the men who are obsessed with how they look. I say obsessed because it is more than just a "Is my tie ok?", these are the very fashion conscious, skin care knowledgeable, maybe even wear a touch of make-up to hide a blemish guys. But I'm talking about the other guys.

Anyway, I think that even though guys don't admit it, they are body conscious. In the same way we are concerned with what makes us women and womanly - the size and shape of our breasts, buttocks, waist and hips, he is also concerned with what makes him a man - his cock and balls (and yeah, probably his chest too).

So I figure we should reciprocate in exactly the same way that we like him to like our breasts and our buttocks, and when we ask that clich├ęd question of "Does my butt look big in this?" or "Am I getting fat?" we expect him to answer with the correct "No honey" or "Yes honey", depending on if you are going for the big butt or small butt, and to assure us that "No, you're not getting fat baby... and anyway, I like a little cushion, for the pushin', ya know" with the little twinkle that further assures us we are still sexually attractive.

And how to reciprocate?

How about by giving him a damn fine blowjob! Or at least, when you are giving him head, be sure to convey by any means how big, beautiful, wonderful his cock and balls are, how much you love them, how good they make you feel.

Because while some men perhaps need a reminder to tell us how beautiful we are, we are allowed to remind them, to show our insecurities and they are generally pretty good once they figure it out. Men on the other hand aren't so free to admit they are worried about the size of their man-hood and that they would like a little reassurance from their lover.

So take it upon yourself? Make him feel like he has the biggest and most beautiful cock in the whole world? You could at least be certain he would walk into work the next day feeling like the boss.

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