Saturday, March 26, 2011

The two ways of the blowjob street.

There is a scene in the movie "Something about Mary" where the character Dom is watching TV and then his wife's pops up from the bottom of the screen as if she was just giving him head. I can imagine there might be a few guys out there who would think this kind of thing would be the bees knees, and also that there are a few women out there who wouldn't mind doing this, but to me, this kind of blowjob is missing the most important aspect of a blowjob - what giving and getting a blowjob really is all about - communication. My idea of what a blowjob is, is a two way street, where the giver is communicating in a physical way love, lust, affection, desire, etc and where the man receiving the blowjob is playing the part of the listener - appreciating and responding appropriately to the given "communication". In the same way that regular aural communication requires back and forth, and a good communicator is not just a good talker but also a good listener I believe that blowjobs require an active giver and receiver. If the guy is just watching TV while she slobs his knob, then how can either of them get the benefit of this act and fully appreciate and savor it? A blowjob, like all acts of love, is a wonderful thing. If you are taking part, either giving or receiving, you should definitely devote your attention to it. Play your part actively and enjoy it for all that it is worth.

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