Wednesday, November 17, 2010

My Blowjob Basics - The Foundations of a Blowjob

Essential to any blowjob are these blowjob basics. No teeth; wetness; warmth; friction. Some extras are: eye contact; a clear view; dirty talk or other sounds of enjoyment. If you start a blowjob with teeth bared, you are unlikely to get positive feedback. Teeth should not contact the head of the penis. Sometimes the shaft is ok as the shaft is less sensitive so it can handle a bit more rough play, but the skin on the head is very sensitive. No teeth!! Wetness can be your saliva or you can use lube. The wetness helps to transfer the heat from your mouth or hand to his cock, and it assists your mouth or hand to slide over his cock with a smooth amazing sensation. A wet blowjob, or even a sloppy blowjob is the best kind. Warmth is good. It feels nice. Cold has a numbing effect so it makes sense to keep things down there nice and warm, where sensation is the main goal. Friction without wetness is just chaffing, so use some saliva or lube! Friction is created by applying pressure to movement. So licking, sucking while bobbing up and down his shaft, stroking will cause a delicious friction that the penis definitely enjoys. So that is the blowjob basics – the foundation of a great blowjob. To make your blowjob really amazing, then of course you also need a loving, willing, exciting and confident attitude. The extras at the top are part of your attitude – your actions and gestures that communicate how you feel giving your lover head.

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Letting the Cum Spill

This is bit of a dirty post. I haven't posted in a while and I haven't posted any personal stories in an even longer while, and last I just had a bit of inspiration... My beau has been texting me all day, and I have been encouraging him. This was my first text from this morning (annoying text language translated): "When you palmed my ass check in bed this morning, I wished you hadn't stopped ;)" My second to last text, in response to his "You better not have any panties on when I get home ;)" was: "I just took them off." He got home, came in and his smirk of a smile was exactly what I was hoping for. I was standing by the counter and he came around behind me. "I'm hungry" he said close to my ear while hugging me from behind. I got a feel for what kind of state he was in by leaning back into him. He pulled me tighter, my butt and his crotch making the most contact. "You're on dinner tonight" I said. "Not food hungry." He crouched down behind me and pulled me out a bit so I could bend at the waist, giving him better access to my pussy. My skirt went up and if I had any on - this is where my panties would have gone down. He started licking me and "ohhhhh" it was good. He was licking me hard. He was getting me everywhere - like a madman. My clit to my asshole, and spending a lot of time getting a good taste. It felt good to be so thoroughly eaten. Not good in a make me come way, but still really good. He got up and I turned around but he grabbed my hips and kept me facing the counter. "Don't move." After undoing his pants, he put his cock between my legs so when he thrust, the top of his cock was sliding against my pussy, ticking my clit. I put my legs together to trap him there, and he dry humped me for a few strokes, then pulled back enough to release his cock and as his erection pulled up, the head slipped into my pussy. Then he changed direction and slid into me. Slowly, until he was most of the way in. It filled me. Then he pulled out, spreading my come around so that his second stroke was able to go all the way in, filling me again. We fucked. It was good. Natural and animal. Then I wanted to suck him. By this point, I was naked, he was still standing in his pants, but shirt off. I dropped down and took him in my mouth. I went straight to get him off mode. I was sucking his head and using my hand at the same time. My tongue was working on his sweet spot (fraenulum area). Just pushing against it as my head moved up and down. His hands came down to my head, his fingers were in my hair. My other hand was on his balls, but I reached up and touched his belly. I stopped sucking, using my hand more vigorously while I reached up further and grabbed his nipple. I squeezed it hard. This was mostly for my pleasure. I like to see him grimace. Then I went back to sucking his cock. He started thrusting and moaning and telling me he was getting close. Then he came. The texting all day had worked. He was primed, so to speak. He came into my mouth and was making a lot of noise. (We always laugh about each other's noises afterward.) As his come shot into my mouth, I didn't swallow. I just kept pushing it out of my mouth, letting it drool out. Some dripped on my leg but most went on the floor. He looked down at me and said "You're such a porn star." He got some tissues for me to wipe my face, and then we went to take a shower. He's cooking dinner now.